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01. Being elegant - Jul 31, 2020 2:39:00 PM

Elegance is not anymore a quality we use frequently to describe somebody. Because we don’t see a lot of elegant people or because they are not used anymore to appreciate elegance?

I am looking also into my dressing and I realized that I buy a lot of clothes that don’t make me elegant or feminine - let’s admit that bluejeans are the most important discovery for designers.

Of course, that clothes are not the only thing that a person elegant. The attitude is also important.

So let’s see how we can bring  more elegance into our life:

Prepare your mind for an elegant attitudeMaintain a good posture - shoulders back and head upAccept compliments and be kind with othersSmile often and make eye contactHave a gastronomic and drinking (especially wines) cultureUse subtle makeup and dress properlySpeak correctly and study a lotPut your phone away while you’re sitting at the table - be present into each conversation you haveChoose quality in everything and don’t overexpose yourselfLove yourself, know yourself and be responsible for you happiness

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02. How do you eat an elephant? - Jul 17, 2020 3:44:00 PM

Piece by piece.

I started to work in HR 6 years ago. Since then, one of my main activities was recruitment.

Of course, nowadays the process is different by industry. But the exercise of going to interviews is the same.

Although you are not looking actively to change the job, it is good for you to go for some interviews. Why?

You find what is new in the market (projects, technologies, companies)You meet new specialists (during the technical interview, you meet the leaders from the company you apply for)You prepare yourselves (including emotionally) for the moment when you really want to make a change

Of course, you have to be fair with the company and let them know that your objective is also to take information and then to make a decision. 

Recruiters are usually blamed because they insist too much. I don’t contest that this could happen. But usually, candidates don’t answer to a first message, to a second message or even to a third message. Maybe ”No Answer Is An Answer”, but it is still polite from you to give an answer.

You still have to look professional and well-prepared because this will be part of your image as a specialist in the market.

A changing process is made of several steps. Each step is part of you the final decision - of your decision, but also the employer.

Pay attention to the way you take each step.

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03. Cum m-am schimbat in perioada aceasta? - Jul 3, 2020 4:44:00 PM

Am invatat sa traiesc mult mai tihnit si sa iau lucrurile ca atare - ”Nu a iesit ceva? Asta este: data viitoare voi incerca mai mult!”Nu ma mai grabesc si nu ma mai stresez sa fac totMa bucur mai mult de ce am - sunt multi cei care si-au pierdut jobul, asa ca eu sunt o norocoasa pt ce amCitesc mai mult si caut mai multe cursuri on-lineIn egala masura, si rafinez (informatiile, activitatiile sau chiar conexiunile de pe retelele sociale)Rutina pt activitate fizica in casaSunt mai atenta la relatiile si oamenii importanti din viata mea - dau mesaje, vorbesc, ii intreb sincer ”ce mai faci?”Ma uit mai atent la cei din jurul meu care au nevoie de suportul meuMa orientez mai mult dinspre interior spre exterior

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04. What I hate the most in this world… - Jun 22, 2020 5:28:00 PM

Arrogant people!

In my nowadays activity, I meet a lot of people. Most of them are wonderful, but some of them… are not.

I don’t like especially arrogant people because they have that superiority attitude and that exaggerated self-importance. I don’t agree with this because all of us have a thing where we succeed and a thing where we suck.

There are some scientific studies which proved that arrogant people are difficult, are dominant and they attack individuals. These are some characteristics which might help them to succeed

Because we don’t want to be bullied by these kinds of people, here are some tips on what we can do:

Ask for an opinion from a third-person. In most cases you are right, but there are also some moments when it helps you to have another feedback regarding that person. Maybe there is something you don’t know and it will help you to understand better that person.Confront that person and ask for more arguments. ”What makes you say this?” and let the arrogant people explain him/herself. In most of situations they use some stereotypes. When you put them this question, they tend to understand they made a negative statement without a clear base.Confess them when they hurt your feelings - everybody has to react on some assertive comments on this.Confront that person regarding his feeling of superiority. ”Explain to me based on what do you feel superior?”Give him/her examples of things where he/she might not exceed.Use the ”arrogant” etiquette - not to him/her, but for him/her behaviour. It will be hard for him/her to assume that what he/she did it was arrogant.

I don’t know if it is good or not, but we can only control ourselves. We cannot control other people and because of this, we have to be careful about how we manage relationships with difficult people near us.

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05. Inner child - Jun 5, 2020 3:01:00 PM

Briefly, the inner child is everything we learned or felt during our childhood. It is part of our personality, but it is reflected more in our unconscious behavior.

Its origins are closed to the psychologist Carl Jung and its child archetype.

By different therapeutic techniques, each person will take care of its unresolved childhood experiences and it will pay attention to its physical, emotional, and psychological needs.

Every child deserves to feel safe. If you recognize yourself as a child on the following things, maybe it helps if you do a little bit of introspection on your inner child:

You were not allowed to express your own opinions.You were asked to be quiet when trying to speak up.You were taught that it’s not ok to show your emotions or to appreciate yourself.You were verbally criticized / abused.You didn’t receive physical affection.

So, what we can do?

First, to be aware of our inner child. What are our unfulfilled needs or frustration from childhood (eg. for love, protection, understanding)? What traumas or disappointments we had during that time?

Being an adult means to understand that those days are over, to accept what was done and to feed that needs. It helps us to work for the reconciliation between the inner child and the mature adult.

Talk to your inner child and appreciate yourself. If you can’t, find a friend who can support you.

In the end, I want to recommend two books on this theme: for the Romanian readers - Gaspar Gyorgy, but also Stefanie Stahl.

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06. De ce este important masterul? - May 23, 2020 8:40:00 AM

In urma articolului meu despre facultate, m-a rugat cineva sa scriu ceva similar si despre master.

Asa ca m-am gandit putin si uite ce a iesit.

Pentru inceput, cred ca ar fi bine sa precizez ca eu am fost studenta la vreo 4-5 ani dupa introducerea sistemului Bologna. Asta inseamna ca am facut parte dintr-o generatie care a avut norocul sa intre intr-un sistem care avea deja niste directii stabilite in privinta modului de lucru (nu am facut parte din acele generatii ”de sacrificiu” de la inceput), insa era totusi destul de devreme pentru a avea pretentia de a avea profesori care sunt ”la zi” cu ce este nevoie in piata.

Personal, am simtit ca masterul m-a specializat in domeniul in care lucrez in momentul de fata.

Puteam eu sa ma angajez in domeniu si fara master? DA - doar ca era nevoie de mai mult efort din partea managerului meu sa imi explice niste concepte (deci teorie) despre procesele sau activitatile mele. Daca ne gandim la faptul ca primul angajator are obligatia de a-ti forma niste deprinderi (pe care nu le poti dobandi decat prin activitati practice), iar peste acest lucru mai adaugi si obligatia de a te invata niste aspecte teoretice - insertia in piata muncii va fi mai grea, iar pt tine ca junior va fi si mai greoi sa cresti profesional.

Cred ca situatia este total diferita in cadrul facultatilor tehnice. Acolo, licenta poate fi de ajuns pentru a profesa - sunt destule situatii de IT-isti care poate nici nu au terminat facultatea, dar si-au gasit job inca din anul 2-3 de facultate. DAR… studiile, in cazul lor, sunt dublate de foarte multa pasiune si lucru individual. Fara ele, unii dintre ei pot face si 10 specializari pentru ca tot nu ajung sa devina specialisti foarte buni.

Concurenta intre programele de formare a crescut (intre facultatile din cadrul aceleasi universitati, intre specializari similare din orase diferite, dar si intre institutiile publice si cele private de pe acelasi profil). Acest lucru a determinat facultatile sa se dezvolte si sa impuna profesorilor sa isi actualizeze cursurile. Cunosc multe facultati in care au intrat la catedra profesori tineri care sunt mult mai activi in piata muncii si care si-au adaptat materia. Toate acestea ma fac sa cred ca sistemul universitar merge intr-o directie buna. Exista in continuare destula presiune pe el pentru a fi mult mai aplicativ, dar cred ca se fac eforturi in directia aceasta.

Poate ca procesul formarii la locul de munca pare usor, dar daca este sa ne gandim ca terminam facultatea cand avem in jur de 22 de ani, iar la primul loc de munca invatam nu doar ”meserie”, ci si bune practice (cum sa respectam un program de 8 ore, cum sa fim productivi, cum sa raportam activitatea, cum sau de unde sa cautam informatii, cum sa facem fata stresului profesional, cum sa ne prezentam unui client … si lista poate continua), atunci lucrurile se complica mult. In acest context, masterul iti ofera inca 2 ani in care sa te maturizezi.

Multi absolventi, putine joburi entry-level. Ma gandesc la situatia ideala - cea in care alegi o facultate pe care ti-o doresti pentru a lucra intr-un domeniu pe care ti-l doresti (facem abstractie de persoanele care urmeaza o facultate doar pt diploma!). Sunt putine companiile care deschid multe roluri entry-level pentru ca sunt putine cele care isi permit sa investeasca timp intr-un junior cu zero experienta. Sunt putine pt ca este un proces care necesita sa aloci resurse umane suplimentare si timp in plus pentru formare, iar in mediul corporate obiectivul principal este sa generezi profit. In acest context, fiecare lucru pe care il adaugi in CV pe langa diploma de licenta ajuta in a te diferentia de alti zeci de absolventi care concureaza cu tine pe acelasi rol.

Diploma de master nu te ajuta sa cresti in ierarhia din companie. Nu iti ofera nici macar acea deducere pt studii superiore valabila in anumite domenii.

Prin urmare, masterul il faci doar pentru a te specializa pe un domeniu si, uneori, pentru a cunoaste persoane care deja profeseaza.

PS: pot sa scriu un articol si despre de ce este importat doctoratul… daca sunt curiosi :D

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07. How our work will change after COVID? - May 15, 2020 6:16:00 PM

For sure all of us will feel a change in everything we do after COVID - from how we travel to the way we work.

I talked about how what personal changes to expect, but how our work will change?

Let me share with you my ideas:

It will be easier to work remotely. Even if most companies emphasize their collaborative way of working, during the last days we had to work from home. In some cases, there were more arrangements to do (think about how many of you had a working space with a desk at home?), but for sure from now on it will be easier to do this.Our work can be different. This period made us more creative or flexible in our tasks so we can accept new ways of working or just new activities.The job market will change. We will need more specialists in some domains and we already reduced the numbers on others because we saw that we can live without them.We will accept easier technology and we will reduce bureaucracy. If these days we did things without waiting for 10 signatures (because we didn’t afford to take all of them in self), probably this simplified way of working can be accepted in the future.We will communicate better because we learned how to do it during this period. I miss a lot of our meetings from the office, but also Zoom is ok.More personal development programs with a focus on employees wellbeing and mental healthBudges will be adjusted to have more efficient investments

My personal statement after this period will be to focus more on local brands - to buy or use only products made local companies; to sustain local events or artists.

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08. Success @ work - May 1, 2020 10:39:00 AM
Happy International Workers' Day 😄 !We all want to have success - it is in our nature to be high self-esteem and success can help with this.But what we have to do for this? At work, it is a mix because it depends on us, on our skills, on our team. There are some internal factors, but also some external ones. But being good doesn’t guarantee your success.We use to work in a very dynamic and competitive environment and we must struggle for success. But how?
First, I think that we have to be honest with our selves and see if we do want to have success at work. Yes… you understood well: if we WANT this. Why? Because there are a lot of people who are not motivated by their work/job. If you don’t like your job, you are not upset if you don’t have success.Then, it is very important to know the objective of your job. How do you want to perform well if you don’t know what the success would mean on your job?You understood how ”the best” looks like on your job and, now, you have to work on it. I mean that you have to learn and to develop your necessary skills. Training, conferences, books - everything can help you to be successful.You can progress if you accept and you ask for supplementary work. And I don’t mean that you necessarily have to do extra hours. But you can try to do some extra-activities that will develop new competencies for you.Work on good work-relationship - with your peers, but also with your manager. All of you make a team and all of you will work for collective success.Grow your social network. Search professional events, look for some specialists on your domain, be up-to-date with everything new on your work. Find a relevant mentor who can help you to grow.Make a constant effort. I know that when you start a new job, you use to put an extra effort into your work. But this doesn’t have to end after your probation period. It has to be a constant intention for you to learn and develop.
Probably, for some of you, this article doesn’t contain any new information.I don’t expect to give to you any new information. But I wanted more to make you think if you use to do the things I mentioned above.

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09. A Pink Unicorn: the Self-Confidence - Apr 24, 2020 2:05:00 PM
We all want self-confidence. It helps us at work, but also it influences our relationships with others.Not everybody was born with high self-esteem, but some of us just learn how to boost it.You can see below some tips on this:
Have a clear-defined imagine about what you want to have or you want to be. When you know what you want to receive, it is easier to work on it. Visualize yourself on that point and think about what steps you have to do.Change your mindset. Maybe it is difficult, but the way you express yourself or what you think about you influences the way you feel. Make a list with things you like to yourself and you will understand why you deserve the best.Be conscientious of the negative thoughts you have. When you ”see” them, chase them away.Changes with small bits. You can’t be a new person overnight, but you can try to change a little bit, every bad habit you have. You can try to do a thing that you never did before or to make it different and think about how you feel. Every limit you pass helps you to be more confident about what new things you can achieve.Honor the achievements you have. Be grateful and enjoy what you did.Be careful of the people near you. Some people who can help you, but also people you can help. No matter what, choose people with the same values as you have.Keep balance. Be focused on your mind, but also on your body. Eat healthily, drink only good things, and have psychical activity.

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10. Sarbatori Fericite sa avem! - Apr 17, 2020 5:36:00 AM

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11. What do we learn after this quarantine period? - Apr 10, 2020 5:23:00 PM
We live a period when the entire world is hurt by COVID-19. There are some new conditions that we have to confront, there are some emotions we feel and, for sure, there will be some habits we will have.Of course, this is a difficult period, but I am sure that we will pass thought this and it will be into our benefits to learn from what we live now.Because of this, I made a list with some things I learned this period:
To follow the rules - from washing hands to stay home, everything into our benefitsTo appreciate each thing we have - a lot of events were canceled this period, and also a lot of vacations. But there will be more during the next yearsTo respect the social distance - most of us love hugs and kisses. But nowadays, we can not afford themTo be more involved in the time we spent with our relatives or friends - when you stay home, you became aware of all the people you can meet anymore face-to-face. Connect with them online, it helps a lotTo plan better next days/weeks - until now, we could go shopping each moment we want. Now, it is safe to have some supplies.To live with few resources - or just to be creative and use the ones you haveTo be more attentive to all around the world events - you don’t know when it can affect us too

What about you? What’s your lesson from this?
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12. What motivates you in life? - Mar 27, 2020 6:41:00 PM
I read that every morning, Steve Jobs used to look in the mirror and asked himself: “If today was the last day of my life, would I be happy with what I’m about to do today?”When his answer was ”no”; he started to make some changes.
I think that for most people, happiness is the greatest motivator in life. It is in our nature as human beings to want to be happy.And it is also our duty to work for our happiness.So, try a small exercise each day - in the morning (while you prepare for work) or during the night (while you prepare to go to sleep). Take 2 minutes to reflect on this:
Are you a good parent / spouse / friend?Do you love your job?Do you smile enough during your day?
If not, what are you doing to change this?
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13. Between benefit and mandatory - work-from-home - Mar 16, 2020 4:29:00 PM
I am not a big fan of work-from-home. Not because I like to spend time in traffic, but because I like working in an office and to spend time with the team.Nowadays, due to the Coronavirus problem, we have to work-from-home.To avoid the alienation (as it can happen to myself), we can take some measures to facilitate our work and our professional relationships:
Set up some objectives - like a ”to-do list” for each working day. In this way, every day you will feel motivated to work and achieve some objectives.Get dressed / make-up or hair as  you do when you work from the office. Keep this routine to have a proper mindset for work.Befriend with a lot of online platforms - from solutions to upload in the cloud the documents to any platform where you can communicate with the team (eg. Skype, Zoom, etc.)Prepare your ”office”. Avoid working from the bad - you can’t concentrate there. And avoid working in the same room with the rest of your family - they will distract your attention.Respect the working hours - in this way, you will delimitate what is work and what is personal time, even if they are in the same place. Don’t go to non-work appointments during the day (like to a doctor or shopping) because they will disrupt your work.Setup more online meeting with the team, for updatesUse the camera - even if you don’t see each other face-to-face, it helps you to see online your peers.

What about you? In what way do you feel efficient when you work-from-home?
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14. How do we improve the learning process - Mar 7, 2020 7:51:00 AM
Nowadays, there are a lot of debates on what the educational system should change.We, as individuals, changed a lot during the latest decades. The children also changed. Because of this, I think that some things that can improve the learning process for the children:
The need to understand the ”why”. Nowadays, we have a lot of resources when we want to learn something. We are anymore used to be obedient and, because of this, we can’t learn new things only because a teacher says so. If it makes sense, we understand that we will need it and we can learn it.The need to play. And the things we learn from the games - even if there are sports or foreign languages or some technical skills.The need to have questions. We are full of curiosities and children use to have more than us. You can assimilate easier information if you discover it. As an adult, you have to stimulate this research.The need to make mistakes. It is healthy for us to have a positive attitude towards failure. From this, we can learn what we have to improve ourselves. If we see our mistakes with fear, this will freeze us for that moment and it won’t help us in the long termThe need for a periodicity. If we do the same thing for a long time, we will be bored with this. But also, it will help us to learn a certain behavior and to practice it. That is the reason why it is good to have a certain schedule for the classes.
Think about your favorite teacher. For what it was so special?
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15. Attached - Feb 21, 2020 5:46:00 PM
In the month of love, let's talk about attachment.Attachment is the emotional bond that is formed first between the child and its caregiver. The theory says that primary caregivers who are available and responsive to an infant's needs allow the child to develop a sense of security. This relationship influences the development of the child and it influences his future relationships as an adult. It creates a coping system - a mental representation for the difficult moments (seen in the case of the children as a separation moment). Because of this, it will provide some behaviors to survive in a difficult moment. Researchers used to separate children from their caregivers and observed their behavior. Based on this, the literature mentioned 4 types of attachment:Secure attachment  - children with this type may be distress when separated from caregivers and joy when the caregiver returns.Ambivalent attachment (or anxious) - it specific for the child who is frightened by separation and continues to display anxious behavior once the caregiver returns.Avoidant attachment - in the case of a child who reacts fairly calmly to a parent’s separation and does not embrace their return.Disorganised attachment - it manifests in odd or ambivalent behavior toward a caregiver upon return—approaching then turning away from or even hitting the caregiver; it may be a result of some traumas.It seems to be some association between attachment characteristics early in life and those in adulthood, especially for romantic relationships. We may expect some adults, for example, to be secure in their relationships - to feel confident that their partners will be there for them when needed, and open to depending on others and having others depend on them. We should expect other adults, in contrast, to be insecure in their relationships. When you realise what is your attachment style, you can be also aware of the dysfunctional behaviors you have. You understand what behaviors you took with you from childhood and you can start to make some changes on the ones which don’t fit with your adult role anymoreYou can find more information about attachment here: 1 , 2 or 3
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16. How to write a professional email? - Feb 8, 2020 6:29:00 AM
It can look like an easy task, but writing a reply to an email it can take some time if you want to skip all the mistakes can happen.If you want to be an easy process, you can cut the email in some parts and analyze each of them like this:
The Greeting. As you wish, you can look for something very formal, or you can try just ”Hi” and put the name. You can try also ”Dear” but I think that this fits bets with people you know very wellThe Body. Present yourself and get to the point. You have to be both concise, but detailedThe Sign-Off. If you like being more formal, try ”best wishes” or ”all the best”. If you want to be more friendly, try ”Yours” or the casual version ”kind regards”. When you close your email with an action point, you can sum up with ”Thank in advance for ”.
Try short sentences written with a clear font.If it is necessary, be sure that you will write also your phone (in the text email or on your signature)Try to send the email during normal business hours, especially when you need an urgent response.If you need to send an email written in English (and English it is not your mother language), you can try some spelling check. Grammarly is a tool that can help you, but there are other more.In the end, I think that writing an email for the job is important because it says something about how are you as a professionist. Ask for feedback from your manager or from a colleague so you can improve this skill.
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17. With or without a picture - Jan 31, 2020 5:45:00 PM
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Even if we are talking about a resume or a Linkedin profile, there is usually a debate around sharing or not a picture with yourself.I like profiles with a picture because it helps me to remember easier that profile. To be an advantage for the candidate, of course, that it has to be a suitable picture.Maybe that is easier to talk about pictures that are not suitable for Linkedin:Pictures from your wedding (or from another important event) – probably in that picture you look very well and you like it. But I think it is not proper to present yourself in a professional context in your wedding dress or with the hairstyle from that event.Sharing a photo where you are with a friend – it can happen just partially or entirely. In both cases, it is visible that you put a photo just to have it and you didn’t pay attention to select a good one.Clothes: t-shirt with straps, short pants or flip-flops. They are nice, but for the summer holidaysA picture made in the club during the weekend (maybe also with a drink): it is nice, but for the Facebook accountAn old picture or a picture with some effects. Also, I think that they are nice, but I don’t think that they fit with the aim of Linkedin.

Writing the things above I don’t want to sustain the idea to present yourself on Linkedin very different from how you are day by day. But I want to make you aware that the way you present yourself on Linkedin sends a message of how you are on your professional life. And this thing can suit or not with the job you applied for.
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18. Do we still read? - Jan 19, 2020 8:42:00 AM

In the end, I think that if we want to grow our communities, we have to invest in culture. So, when was the last time when you bought some culture?

PS: here is my 2019 list with favorite books
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20. A sabbatical period - Jan 4, 2020 10:07:00 AM

Nowadays, I hear frequently about people who want to take a sabbatical period.It happens this probably because we are tired of the usual work and we want to reconnect with our passions. It is a good time to think about what you did until that moment and what are your expectations for the future. You can do volunteering work, you can learn new things or just travel.From the legal side, you can quit your job or take un unpaid holiday period.Try a reasonable period (maximum 1 year). When you came back to work for sure you will receive a lot of questions about what you did. It will be a challenge to adapt again to your work schedule.But also, when you came back to work, you will feel more relaxed and this is great for both of you (employee and employer).
If you want a sabbatical period, but you don't know what to do, you can find here some ideas.
I wish you all a beautiful, magical and happy new year!

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21. Happy New Year! - Jan 1, 2020 1:27:00 PM

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22. Ganduri ca de final de an - Dec 30, 2019 1:30:00 PM

23. 19 books which make my year - Dec 20, 2019 6:11:00 PM

24. Things to do as an employee - Dec 7, 2019 12:35:00 PM
Make a career planMake a habit of making new things (to be out of your comfort zone)Practice, practice and... you can try also to practiceTake time for professional networkingInvest in long-term objectivesLearn and read - always and everythingFind a mentorPay attention to your time management skillsShare your knowledgeDevelop healthy habits
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25. The recruiter and the candidate. Love or hate? - Nov 23, 2019 12:12:00 PM